One of the most telling things Tom Holland has ever said about his relationship with Zendaya was in an interview with Men’s Health, where he explained why he doesn’t walk red carpets with her at her events, simply saying, “It’s not my moment, it’s her moment, and if we’re together, it’s our moment.” That statement is a lesson in itself. Knowing when to step back, cheer from the side, and allow your partner to fully enjoy their moment is a rare quality, and one that this couple demonstrates over and over again. When Zendaya won her second Emmy, she told E! News that the first person she texted was her boyfriend. He was not standing next to her on that stage. He doesn’t need this.